naw no need to switch it around i have my own nick caller its kind of a big one haha

Menu menubar,nicklist,channel,status,query {
  nick caller
  ..$iif($group(#NickCaller) == On,$style(2)) NickCaller on: { .enable #NickCaller  } 
  ..$iif($group(#NickCaller) == Off,$style(2)) NickCaller off: { .disable #NickCaller }
}

#NickCaller on
on $*:text:$(/\b( $+ $me $+ |Ryan)\b/iS):#:{
  if ($chan != #SERVICES-DIAGNOSTICS) {
    if ($appactive == $false) {
      if ($nick == wulfgar) { halt }
      if ($nick == relaybot) { halt } 
      if ($$1 == !fight) { halt }
      .set %nickcallerinfo $nick called your nick saying $$1- in $chan on $server at $time(h:nn:tt )
      NickCaller
      window @Nick
      aline -p @Nick 4,1 $+ $nick called you at $time(h:nn:tt ) on channel $chan $+  
      aline -p @Nick 4,1 on server $+ $server $+
      aline -p @Nick 4,1and said: $1-
      aline -p @Nick 4,1---
    }
    else { if ($appactive == $true) {
        if ($nick == wulfgar) { halt }
        if ($nick == relaybot) { halt }
        if ($$1 == !fight) { halt }
        If ($Active != $Chan) {
          titlebar DarkRealmIRC $nick said your nick in $chan on $remove($server,.chat,.server) $time(h:nn:tt )
          .set %saidnickchan $chan           
          .set %saidnickserver $server
        }
      }
    }
  }
}
.ignore -pu30 $wildsite

on $*:action:$(/\b( $+ $me $+ |Ryan)\b/iS):#:{
  if ($chan != #SERVICES-DIAGNOSTICS) {
    if ($appactive == $false) {
      if ($nick == wulfgar) { halt }
      if ($nick == relaybot) { halt }
      if ($$1 == !fight) { halt }
      .set %nickcallerinfo $nick called your nick saying $$1- in $chan on $server at $time(h:nn:tt )
      NickCaller
      window @Nick
      aline -p @Nick 4,1 $+ $nick called you at $time(h:nn:tt ) on channel $chan $+  
      aline -p @Nick 4,1 on server $+ $server $+
      aline -p @Nick 4,1and said: $1-
      aline -p @Nick 4,1---
    }
    else { if ($appactive == $true) {
        if ($nick == wulfgar) { halt }
        if ($nick == relaybot) { halt }
        If ($Active != $Chan) {
          titlebar DarkRealmIRC $nick said your nick in $chan on $remove($server,.chat,.server) $time(h:nn:tt )
          .set %saidnickchan $chan
          .set %saidnickserver $server
        }
      }
    }
  }
}
#NickCaller end
alias NickCaller {
  noop $tip(NickCaller,NickCaller,%nickcallerinfo,60,)
} 
on *:ACTIVE:*: {
  if ($chan == %saidnickchan) && ($server == %saidnickserver) {
    titlebar DarkRealmIRC
  }
}

not as big as some i've seen but it works nicely